I just figured that about 80% of our youthful relationships involve sex(a random estimate).infact it is a neccesity.infact sex is health,I don't disagree.but as for d youths,we have boundaries.so would u rather stay in a relationship and abstain,or would u rather stay out of a relationship and be safe?let me know where u fall.

well, it's right to abstain from sex but we can't just stay single and wake up one morning to get married, that's why we have dating/courtship relationships.
2ndly, staying out of a relationship doesn't imply that one is not having sex. I'd say we should guard our hearts (and parts) with all diligence.
As for me, I'ld stay in a relationship and fight the temptations, we all know how sweet the feeling of loving and being loved feels.