× "For this reason shall a man leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife" - Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:5

The Truth You Need To Hear On How To Enjoy Marriage! - Chiagozie Chidebe

6 years 3 months ago #2605 by gospelnaija
Proverbs 5:18-20
Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you. Rejoice in the wife of your youth. She is a loving deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts satisfy you always. May you always be captivated by her love. Why be captivated, my son, by an immoral woman, or fondle the breasts of a promiscuous woman?
I Timothy 3:2-4
An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, prudent, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not addicted to wine or pugnacious, but gentle, peaceable, free from the love of money. He must be one who manages his own household well, keeping his children under control with all dignity…
“RELISH (to enjoy or take great pleasure in an experience) your wife.
One of the weapons that God gives to married men to fight sin is by them enjoying their wives. Godly men must enjoy their wives. They must delight in their wives. Elders must cherish their wives more than the church. They must serve their wives more than they serve the church. If not, he has disqualified himself. So then, pastors should relish their wives as a way of fighting impurities”.-Guy Fireworks
Above was a lovely and true message sent to me by a Spiritual mentor and great destiny friend…..One of the problems we have with Christians as pertains marriage is lack of balance, we tend to see our responsibilities in marriage as being carnal, responsibilities that will ensure we tap into God’s grace to keep our marriages away from the reach of satan and no wonder we are having more Christian divorces and my passion is to change that trend starting with you my single friends.
It is amazing we tend to practice all the wrongs things before marriage and when we do get married where we are now permitted by God to fully practice the right things to keep the marriage relationship passionate and exciting, we don’t and give a foothold to satan to wreak havoc in our marriages, this is the deception of satan!…….Let us understand a few truths, serving God and serving the Church are two different things, your relationship with God coming first before your spouse is completely different from your involvement in Church coming first before your spouse, there is the spiritual aspect of marriage(e.t.c Praying together, Serving God together, being not unequally yoked, marrying for purpose, Christ being the center of your home) but there is also the physical responsibilities of marriage (e.t.c Keeping passion and attraction alive, Respecting your husband, Being attractive for each other, Remaining captivated by your wife, Pleasing and meeting each other needs in marriage sexually and emotionally, Proper Money management, Being open and talking about your Sex life in marriage for improvements), this misunderstanding has crashed many marriages!
There is no vacuum in life, if you are not captivated by your God given wife, you will be captivated by a seductress sent from hell, if as a wife you don’t cause your husband to be endeared to you, another lady will cause him to be endeared to her! There is no doubt that God’s Purpose for bringing you together in marriage backed up by sacrificial Love that also comes from God, forms the foundation of marriage but if you neglect keeping Love alive in your marriage in practical ways by the wisdom of God, you will crash your marriage, divorce is unnecessary especially among believers, most acts of unfaithfulness is because one or both parties in a marriage had their needs met outside by another satan sent person and to them there have found something more exciting outside there now dull and drably marriage experience(“The devil is a liar!”), like I have said before ;When it comes to your or any marriage relationship, the grass is not greener on the other side, it is greener where God has asked you to be but you have to work on your relationship by God’s grace, period!...... This is the balanced Truth I’m committed to always teach and a Truth that will safeguard your marriage and cause you to always Enjoy your marriage and not Endure it and consequently enhance powerfully your fulfillment of God’s purpose over your life that brought you both in marriage together in the first place…Please as a single avoid any man or woman who emphasis on only one aspect of being married, whether the spiritual or the physical aspects of marriage!...Selah!

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